My Own Inner Distorted Masculine Tendency 

I’ve said countless times that everything happens for a reason, and despite repeating this to myself nonstop, I still struggled to surrender enough to be able to see clearly. My bladder woke me up at 2ish in the morning this morning, and after also having to flush a huge spider while in there, I returnedContinue reading “My Own Inner Distorted Masculine Tendency “

Mirroring: Self-Blame and Outside Validation 

The farther into your healing journey, the more deeply ingrained are the shadows that we must heal. I’ve come to find that the shadows I realize at this point are the culmination of shadows I’ve already illuminated; but, in a sense, were more realistically mere pieces of the whole puzzle I simply hadn’t connected yet.Continue reading “Mirroring: Self-Blame and Outside Validation “

Our Greatest Teachers and Messengers 

You’ve likely heard the saying somewhere that we are met with teachers and messengers when we need them most. All too often, people associate this with people who have some sort of teaching title, or are a spiritual guru in some way. When we’re told to seek a teacher, we often don’t realize we learnContinue reading “Our Greatest Teachers and Messengers “

Boundaries: Saying “No”? There’s More to It! 

I mentioned previously at some point that establishing and asserting healthy boundaries is necessary to live healthily and confidently. It’s important for us to know what we like, and what we will never do. We need to know what treatment towards us we accept and what punishment we will assert if we’re treated unjustly. AssertingContinue reading “Boundaries: Saying “No”? There’s More to It! “

Burnout? The Source and the Solution 

It’s amazing sometimes how many simple or blatantly obvious things are left unrealized. Sudden realization hit me a couple days ago of why I’ve been suffering from extreme burnout for two years straight, and I’m over here laughing at myself for not realizing it sooner. Honestly, this delay was likely in part due to beingContinue reading “Burnout? The Source and the Solution “